Prayer And Other Aspects Of Religion – My POV

I was born and raised a Hindu. I attended my primary school in a Hindu institution, my high school in a Catholic school , my Engineering degree in a college founded by a Muslim visionary and My MBA from a Government run university . I am influenced by teachings of all these religions – and when I was in college, the student body was very left leaning, so I have read a fair amount of marxist type literature too.

On the plus side – this makes me totally tolerant of all religions – because, once you abstract it to a high level, they all say pretty much the same things. There are specifics like idol worship that are significantly different between religions, but that does not matter to me all that much. On the minus side – there are plenty of things that are not very clear for me about the concept of God, Prayer etc which frustrates me to some degree.

All these religions teach us the superiority of God over everything else, and I buy into that. But – at the same time, they also give totally human characteristics to God. This makes it hard for me – does God really need us to offer a prayer of praise?. I cannot imagine that God needs an ego boost from humans. If God were human – would we like a someone who won’t help unless we constantly sang praises?  But we do it any way – at least on occasion. Why?

What about prayer of petition? Religion tells us that God’s will is all that matters, and that we must succumb to it. If that is the case, why would we then also make prayers of petition? If God has a plan for everything – what does it matter whether we petition for something or not? 

I can see some rationale for prayers of love,charity and contrition. Our actions do not always account for all that happens to us. Hence – saying thanks and sorry to the power that accounts for the grand plan sounds logical to me. Somehow, apart from some ritualized aspects of contrition and penance – these types of prayers take a backseat.  However, there is one question in my mind – if God already made plans for everything that happens around us, what is the point in saying sorry and thank you and please?

Also, what is the need for middlemen between man and God. In a human organization, I fully understand the need for hierarchies. However, since God is über powerful – is there really a need for priests, saints etc to convey messages between us and God?

Why do we need a defined place for worshiping – like a Temple, Mosque or Church? All religions tell us that God is omnipresent, and that God is within us. Then why would I need to go to a certain place to communicate with God?

If devotion to god is not an act, and a way of life – do we really need specific days to worship? We need father’s day and mother’s day and independence day and so on because people have busy lives and in the mad rush, we do not think daily of dad and mom and the nation. We feel guilty of that occasionally, and get rid of our guilt by using an arbitrary day to take care of it. Although dad, mom and the nation could probably use more interaction with us – they are usually not in a position to change our behavior. But God is much more powerful – so if God cared about constant attention from us, wouldn’t God have done something to influence it? Since that does not seem to be the case – my theory is that God does not really care if we think about God all the time.

I think Religions serve more societal and psychological needs than spiritual needs. Having a place and time to worship brings people together, and augments the legal framework of a society with a moral framework. People resist the temptation for crime partly because of fear of God punishing them in some form on top of the society punishing them. Having God to blame for our disappointments give us a big psychological relief. Believing that God will intervene and make things right for us help us keep trying. So yes – religion does have a very valid reason to exist.

The people who founded religions probably found that it was easiest to get a following by giving God some human attributes. This would help others relate to the concept without a lot of critical thinking, and help make teachings more accessible via stories. This also helps explain why middlemen came into being between God and commoners. By instituting prayers of praise and petition – humans can easily think of God as a very powerful human who is more powerful than a King, rather than as an abstract concept. And as they get to think over time, they can fine tune their belief and faith to whatever suits them. So I think it was a very smart idea to put such a framework in place.

Concept of life after death is also a very clever and smart idea in my opinion. Since no one knows exactly what happens after death – the thought that you could be praised/punished will keep us even more focused on sticking to the framework when we are alive. This serves as a catch-all for anything that happens which cannot be explained easily. For example – say you followed all the teachings of your religion, and still got in to trouble some how. This can then be explained that this is “a test” and “your reward will be in your next life”. The next life of course differs across religions – some saying you will be born again to suffer consequences of past life, and some say you go to hell/heaven after God tallies your score and so on. Risk averse nature of many people make them feel more secure that if they stick to the rules – they have a good chance of going to heaven, in case there is a heaven. In case there is no heaven, it still gives them a reason to feel more peaceful in life and stay out of trouble. So it works either way.


Published by Vijay Vijayasankar

Son/Husband/Dad/Dog Lover/Engineer. Follow me on twitter @vijayasankarv. These blogs are all my personal views - and not in way related to my employer or past employers

2 thoughts on “Prayer And Other Aspects Of Religion – My POV

  1. Good one to read, but I think your few frustrations are possibly because may be you believe in God partially. This I feel, is normal for many who want to believe at their convenience.

    For example, you are okay with having Mother’s day or Father’s day in the customs, but you are not okay for having a separate place for praying to the God, like a Temple, Church or a Mosque. In the Hindu religion, the one you grew up with, says Mata (mom), Pita (dad), Guru (teacher) and Dheivam (god) as the hierarchy. Putting Mother first and the God last, on whom you should respect and listen first. So consider the prayer day as the God’s day, which can be every day. This can be a Temple or any holy place or a small corner in your home.

    Second, If you believe in God, but does not believe in the way you reach / communicate with God, it does not make much sense, as well. People believe in God, but when they want to conveniently avoid (a trip to the Temple) and say God is every where. Of course God is every where (I will come to that in a minute). Many people follow the same way. When you need the God, one want the God to be close by to respond soon, by saying God is every where. I am not questioning your point for the need for a holy place to pray, but questioning your assumptions that your reasoning could apply to all.

    Third, You can say sorry to God, for being bad or thanks to God by praising, for helping you succeed, if you believe in God, as that helps to maintain you in the right path. You don’t have to give only when someone is asking, but you can also find the need by yourself to do so. Not that God is looking for one’s praise or pity. I believe, by feeling sorry or saying thanks, you are encouraging your inner self to follow the right path. BTW, it is not any ego boost for the God, but ignorance to assume that God is asking for it.

    I believe the religion is for people to maintain their good morals and be a better person the next day. Just like you, I am Hindu, but my major learning was from a Christian school. I believe all religions are great and based on a common core, and one’s faith is very personal, and people believe what they believe (as long as they are not evil for others) and go forward in their life to live a better life.

    Now coming to God being every where, the religion you grew up with says that “Anbe Shivam” (Love is God). If one is good to the next person without any evil thoughts, that person is divine. And if all people try to be like that then everyone is Godly. There are many good people among one, as long as that one is a better person.

    My POV – continue believing in what you believe, but getting mixed up with others non-evil beliefs, is not the one that will come anywhere close to Go(o)d.


  2. Absolutely terrific Vijay!

    You nailed everything here, yet managed to keep it concise. It is very understandable to have religion and politics at the same time, they serve as a good cop-bad cop system

    i am amazed though at the persistence people stick to their belief, even when strongly challenged. People will self-justify their ways fiercely

    Thanks again, great post!


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